It is my belief that everyone loves to be complimented, and I am no exception. I truly appreciate all of them, and let it be known that this post isn't about seeking more of them. It is about one in particular touched me a few weeks ago and provided an uplift I needed.
It also got me thinking about the value of a good, true, heartfelt compliment and that I need to give more of them.
This leads into something else I have been working on - becoming a better listener. I believe the great compliment I received is because the giver was actually listening to my story. The value of the compliment comes not from the words said, but because, as the receiver, you feel really listened to.
Her compliment, "I'm proud of you!" There was more to it, of course, but that's the phrase that stuck with me. In that moment, I truly felt proud of my accomplishments and how far I have come in this journey in what really is a short amount of time.
I'm sure this book club friend has no idea how much her words meant to me, but I am grateful that she took the time to share them and for giving me the motivation to keep truckin' along!
Take time to listen to your friends, family, co-workers, ect and when there is something to compliment - don't hold back, say it!! And when complimented, say "Thank You! I really appreciate that!"
So to Linda, thank you for your thoughtful word. I really appreciated them!
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